Elaine Sihera

Cheating & Betrayal Elaine Sihera

Cheating, or betrayal, is one of the most emotionally draining occurrences that anyone has to cope with. This is because, no matter how much one might be 'expecting' it to happen and fear its reality, it can still be pretty devastating. Nothing ever prepares one for the rejection and loss of favour that is usually involved when one partner places his/her attention and affection on someone else. Cheating carries so many emotional feelings in its wake: shock, rejection, loss, bewilderment, hurt, denial, lack of understanding, confusion and, above all, anger and recriminations. Worse still, it is so much easier to cheat now because of technology, that some people are doing it with impunity. Cheating & Betrayal aims to clarify the common reasons why people cheat, using some useful advice, personal dilemmas and tips for how to keep cheating at bay and reduce its impact whenever it happens. It is easy to convince ourselves that our partnerships are solid and secure, and partners wouldn't dream of cheating on us. But that kind of complacent thought could be the first mistake in denying its potential reality. If nothing else, this book informs and educates about a subject that is lethal in its effects but tends to be reluctantly discussed. The 10 chapters include: what happens when attraction is gone; the most common issues between couples that cause cheating; the seven key triggers of unhappiness in relationships; why break-ups happen, especially after many years together; and the effects of dramatic emotional change after breaking-up. Some key topics are: - Three Crucial Factors That Make a Relationship Work; - Six Signs Your Spouse is no Longer Interested in You; - Dealing with Dishonesty and Distrust Between Couples; - How to get Change in a Partner; - Five Tell-Tale Signs Your Relationship is in Danger of an Affair; - Gender Perceptions in Relationships; - How to Recover from a Broken Heart; - Three key Factors that Help to Speed up the Healing Process......among many others.