A J Abdi

How to spot a gold digger A J Abdi

After one traumatic love episode, some men instinctively learn to smell a gold digger far away from the subtle combination of enticing charm and beauty which she skilfully uses to bring her victims to their knees and get them to pull out their wallets at the snap of her finger. However, some men need the characteristics of gold diggers spelt out for them otherwise, they cannot avoid falling into these ladies' traps. Gold miners don't come from Mars, they are ordinary girls who are more attentive to their looks and aim to have both fun and a comfortable life. They discover early that they don't have to work hard to have this life. Men usually finance this extravagant lifestyle if this kind of woman plays her cards right. Bottom line, a gold digger is in it for the money. When it dries up, she is up and gone. Men sometimes set themselves up for exploitation by these ladies. They are love smitten and would want to show that they are worth being with. They swoon over her, start showing to show off, telling her where they work and how much they earn. They will take her to their luxurious house immediately causing her to pull out her tools fast and start working. Her phone gets stolen, her rent becomes due, and she asks for a new outfit for the party you are taking her to. At this point, you may be too infatuated to say no, but the list of needs keeps coming. However, some men are more than glad to have the temporary company of these beauties in exchange for meeting their demands. But these relations rarely last long. If you are looking for a serious relationship, the girl before you may not be a gold digger, but a genuine, and beautiful classy girl. To rule out this, take her to inexpensive dates, and delay taking her to your place or tell her what you do. A gold digger will run if she doesn't smell any money while a genuine girl will stay put.