James Olah

Dating by Design James Olah

You would think that having been previously married it would be easier getting remarried. After all you know what you want and what you don't want in the next spouse. Once you find the one you think is an excellent candidate, do you have a plan for developing that new relationship? Dating by design is a continuation of my book The Meeting Room which talks about on-line dating. Now how do you go about the process of developing a relationship that will make for a solid marriage? This process is not as easy as it seems. You can get to know a person so well in the first four months that you think you are ready for marriage. However, you have only begun. What do you need to move that relationship to a point of not just knowing them but becoming best friends? Remarriage still calls for establishing terms of your relationship. Do you really know what love is, and how to work out disagreements? Because sex was so much a part of the previous marriage, what part does it play in your courting time? How can sex short circuit the building of your relationship? How do you make your new relationship unique in your interests and how you live life? Dating by Design is a book to help recognize some of the issues needed to address in a dating relationship and go at it in an intentional manner.